OSTIA RALPH SELF

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Ostia Ralph Self, 86, died Thursday, Nov. 24, at Rex Hospital, after a long illness. “Ralph” Self was born in Chatham County to Ralph C. Self and Lucy Elmore Self. He graduated from N.C. State University in Civil Engineering (June 1, 1958) and later earned a master’s degree in Structural Engineering (July 19, 1963). He was in the ROTC at NCSU, served in the Army, and the Army Reserve until he retired as a Lt. Colonel.

After graduation from NCSU, Ralph joined the N.C. Dept. of Education, School Planning Division, where he was instrumental in the structural approval of many local schools. He brought his passion for engineering to the design of his own acclaimed mid-century modernist home, working in partnership with architect Truman Newberry. In 1995 Ralph received the Order of the Long Leaf Pine Society from N.C. Governor James B. Hunt, the highest award given for state service.

Throughout his life, he was an excellent travel planner and enjoyed cooking gourmet meals for his family and friends. He was a proud father and grandfather, always encouraging his family to Dream Big. Condolences may be shared at CremationSocietyNC.com.

After graduation from NCSU, Ralph joined the N.C. Dept. of Education, School Planning Division, where he was instrumental in the structural approval of many local schools. He brought his passion for engineering to the design of his own acclaimed mid-century modernist home, working in partnership with architect Truman Newberry. In 1995 Ralph received the Order of the Long Leaf Pine Society from N.C. Governor James B. Hunt, the highest award given for state service.

Throughout his life, he was an excellent travel planner and enjoyed cooking gourmet meals for his family and friends. He was a proud father and grandfather, always encouraging his family to Dream Big.

He was predeceased by his parents; his brother, Leroy Self, and sister-in-law, Helen Marie Self; sister, Luta Self White and brother-in-law K.C. White; and niece, Pamela Ann Self.

He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Joanne Johnson Self; daughter, Sally Self West (Eric); granddaughter, Emily Kate West; brother, Dwight (Maryann); nephews, Wayne White (Carol), Martyne Self (Leslie), Chris Self (Crystal), Stan Self (Lisa).

A private memorial celebration of life will be held at a future date, to be determined.

In lieu of flowers, consider a donation to World Central Kitchen (www.wck.org) which feeds and helps people in conflict zones.